If you’ve ever scrolled through my wedding galleries and thought, “Where are the adorable flower girls?? The cake-faced toddlers?? The kid who tried to eat the microphone??” You’re not imagining things—I just don’t post kids’ photos online. And that’s 100% on purpose. Yep, why I don’t post kids’ photos comes down to one big thing: respect. For them, and for the very real privacy concerns in today’s very online world.
As a Philadelphia wedding photographer who specializes in documentary-style wedding photography, I’m all about capturing real, beautiful, blink-and-you’ll-miss-it moments. But I’ve made a conscious decision to keep little faces out of the spotlight—and here’s why.
Why I Don’t Post Kids’ Photos: It’s About Their Privacy, Not My Feed
Kids are incredible to photograph. They bring joy, chaos, cookie crumbs, and the kind of genuine expression that makes for seriously unforgettable moments. (Honestly, they give big “main character” energy.) But as much as I love capturing these memories, I believe privacy in wedding photography matters—especially when it comes to children.
Because what used to be “just a cute photo” is now a data point. A searchable image. A tiny piece of someone’s digital identity that they didn’t choose to share.
And if I can be a tiny part of protecting that? I’m in.
What Happens to Photos Once They’re Online?
This isn’t just a gut feeling—there’s actual research behind it. One of my go-to reads on the subject is this article, and it’s worth a skim.
It explains how AI can now scan and store facial data, how companies scrape public images for training and marketing, and how kids are building digital footprints before they even know what a footprint is.
I know that’s a lot—and I’m not here to scare anyone. But it’s something I think about. A lot. So I made the call: No kid faces in my wedding portfolio. No exceptions.
Don’t Worry—You Still Get the Good Stuff!
You’ll still get all those amazing moments: the flower girl spinning until she falls over, the ring bearer eating his tie, the tiny dance battles at the reception.
That’s the magic of cinematic wedding photography—it tells the story of your day without needing to share every detail with the world.
I’ll capture those moments for you (and trust me, they’ll be in your gallery). But I won’t put them on my blog, Instagram, or anywhere else public-facing. Sometimes I’ll even swap a kid’s face for a cartoon taco or banana if they’re in a group shot—because I’m a goofball and also? Bananas are funny.
One Less Thing to Worry About
Every family has their own comfort level with online sharing. And weddings are busy—you don’t want to be thinking about photo permissions while you’re trying to locate the missing groomsman.
So I take the decision off your plate. With me as your documentary wedding photographer, you can be confident that your day will be beautifully captured—and your littlest guests will be kept out of the spotlight unless you specifically ask otherwise.
What I Believe, Beyond the Camera
To me, this is about more than a policy—it’s about people.
If we’re thoughtful about how we use tech, how we share images, and how we protect kids’ stories, we make the world a little kinder. I can’t change the internet, but I can change how I use it.
If you’re into meaningful, candid storytelling, and the kind of wedding photography that’s a little cinematic, a little goofy, and a lot intentional—I’d love to be your Philadelphia wedding photographer.
Planning a wedding and love the idea of thoughtful, joyful photography—banana emoji faces included? Let’s talk! I’d love to hear your story and capture the day your way.
Bonus: Want to Learn More About Kids + Online Privacy?
If you’re curious (or a little bit alarmed—it’s okay, me too!), here are a few thoughtful reads:
- Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Publicly Post Photos of Your Kid Online – CyberDad
- A fresh warning from experts on the dangers of posting your kids online
- Instagram and the Syndrome of Children With Emoji Heads – Le Monde
Protecting our kids’ privacy isn’t just wise—it’s kinda wonderful.
All images are copyrighted to Jenn Ceriale // colorful, heartfelt wedding and engagement photographer serving Bucks County, Philadelphia, New Jersey, and the surrounding tristate area. Jenn is a documentary and cinematic wedding photographer who captures each celebration with care, connection, and respect—especially when it comes to the privacy of families and children. Her approach blends digital and film photography to tell love stories that are sacred, silly, and beautifully real. If you’re looking for a Philadelphia wedding photographer who values meaning over marketing, you’re in the right place.
Why You Won’t See Kids’ Photos in My Work
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